Wai Sing Lam
November 25,2010

Wing-Man Research Paper Outline


Preliminary Thesis: Men need each other as wing-men and for moral support to order to receive the attention and hook-up of available single women.



I.Finding,understanding, and choosing wing-man.
A. Research wing-man in books or first hand experience.
B. Loyalty and responsibility toward other men toward women friend no matter how ugly she may look.
C. According to Andrew Adam Newman article, Wing-men in the Wings Newman said, "if you have an energetic personality, go out with someone more relaxed because he'll complement you more,and determining who will be the wing-man and who the pilot in each encounter.""Before you approach, agree who's going to talk to the 8-on-a-scale-of-10 and who will keep the 6 entertained, and don't switch in the middle."(p.1)




II.Scouting out single women
A. Men finding women and taking responsibility and loyalty with other men.
B. Finding the beauty and physical appearance of women and distracting their friends.
C. According to David Grazian article, The Girl Hunt: Urban Nightlife and the performance of Masculinity as Collective Activity Grazian said, "As we were beginning to mobilize ourselves and move towards the dance floor, James noticed Rachel, a girl he knew from Penn who he often told me about as a potential girlfriend." "Considering James was seemingly into this girl, Dan and I decided to be good wing-men and entertain Rachel's friend, Sarah."(p.330)




III.The Dating wing-man assistant
A. Aaron Ellnner offers face to face advice to men and phone calls for help with finding the special someone.
B. Provides matchmaking assistant for hookup at his events or public places to men and women.
C. According to Aliza Appelbaum article, The Dating Wing-man Appelbaum said, "Through his company, The Dating Wingman, he offers phone and in-person Consultations to dole out relationship advice to the lovelorn, and he holds singles events at bars in New York City about once a month.""The most recent, on June 24, was geared toward people ages 21 to 31 hoping to meet that special someone."(p.1)




IV.Potential conclusion
A. Men use of wing-man and moral support help them boost confidence and strength toward finding women.
B. Searching for the wing-man help men find the right women.
C. Scouting for women is important to finding the one with the best characteristics that fit what men want.
D. Wing-men is essentially important for men having tough times with talking or speaking with women.